မိတ်ဆွေကျင့်ဝတ် ၅-ပါး
zaw mgမိတ်ဆွေကျင့်ဝတ် ၅-ပါး
ပေးကမ်းချီးမြှင့်၊ ကိုယ်နှင့်ယဉ်ထား၊ စီးပွားဆောင်ရွက်၊ နှုတ်မြွက်ချိုသာ၊ သစ္စာမှန်စေ၊ ဝတ်ငါးထွေ၊ ကျင့်လေ မိတ်သဟာ။
(၁) မိမိတတ်နိုင်သလောက် ပေးကမ်းချီးမြှင့်ခြင်း၊
(၂) ကိုယ့်အောက်သို့ မနှိမ့်ချမူ၍ ကိုယ်နှင့်တန်းတူထားကာ ဆက်ဆံခြင်း၊
(၃) နှစ်ဦးနှစ်ဝ ကြီးပွားရန်အတွက် စီးပွားရေးလုပ်ငန်းများကို လုပ်ကိုင်ဆောင်ရွက်ရခြင်း၊
(၄) ပြောဆိုဆက်ဆံရာ၌ စကားအရာ ပြေပြစ် ချိုသာစွာ ပြောရခြင်း၊
(၅) စီးပွားရေးလုပ်ငန်း လုပ်ကိုင်ရာတွင် သစ္စာဖောက်ဖျက်မှု မရှိဘဲ မှန်ကန်တိကျခြင်း။
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အာဖျံ ကွီး
February 18, 2011 at 3:38 am
တခြားကျင့်ဝတ်တွေကိုတော့လိုက်နာနိင်ပါတရ်။
နံပါတ် (၄) ကတော့သိပ်မလွယ်ဘူး။
ဒေါသထွက်လာရင်တော့ ဘာမှမမြင်တော့ဘူးလေ။
ဟူး … ရင့်ကျက်ဖို. ကြိုးစားရအုံးမှာပါလား။ 🙁
nyimalay
February 19, 2011 at 12:50 pm
ဟုတ်တယ်ဟုတ်တယ် ပိစိကွေးလည်းတူတူပဲ ဒေါသတော်ယုံဖြစ်ခဲတယ်…… ဒါပေမယ့်စိတ်တော့ခဏခဏကောက်တယ်….. 😛
ဒေါသဖြစ်ပြီဆိုရင်တော့ ဘာမှမမြင်တော့ဘူး ဖြစ်ချင်ရာဖြစ်ပဲ………….. 🙂
ရွာသူ၊ရွာသားတွေသိကြတယ်ဟုတ်………… 😀
kai
February 18, 2011 at 9:06 am
လွန်ခဲ့တဲ့နှစ် ဂွမ်တီ..ဂွမ်တီး .. သချာင်္တောင်မတွက်တတ်သူတွေခေတ်ရဲ့… ဆောင်ပုဒ် ကျင့်ဝတ်တွေပါ..။
ဆက်သွယ်နိုင်မှုဧရိယာကလည်း ..မိုင်၁၀၀ဝန်းကျင်တောင် မရှိသေးတဲ့ခေတ်တွေပေါ့..။
မိတ်ဆွေ။ သူငယ်ချင်း။ စီးပွားဖက်၊ ပါတနာ၊ ရှယ်ယာကိုင်ထားသူ၊ လုပ်ငန်းအထက်အောက်လုပ်နေသူ။ တရုံးထဲတူတူလုပ်နေသူ။ ဆွေမျိုးတော်ပြီး အသိဖြစ်သူ။ အာဏာပိုင်ကမိတ်ဆက်ပေးလို့ မိတ်ဆွေဖြစ်သူ။ ငယ်သူငယ်ချင်း။ ကြီးမှမိန်းမဖက်ကသိတဲ့သူ။ ရည်းစားမကျသူငယ်ချင်းမဟုတ်..။ နိုင်ငံခြားအလုပ်သွားလုပ်ရင်းသိလာသူ..။
အောင်မလေးးးးးးဒီခေတ်..အသိမိတ်ဆွေ ဆက်ဆံမှုတွေ .. ချရေးရင်တောင်..အများကြိးပဲ..။
အင်တာနက်က ..လူချင်းမတွေ့ရတဲ့ ချပ်တင်မိတ်ဆွေ။ ဂျီတော့အသိ။ ဖေ့စ်ဘုတ်သူငယ်ချင်းတွေမပါသေးဘူး..။
ဒီခေတ် ဗားရှင်းဆိုပြီး ..သေသေချာချာ ပြန်ပြုစုဖို့ကောင်းတယ်..။
မြန်မာတွေက .. အတွေးအခေါ်တွေပါ.. ရှေးခေတ်ထဲ ပိတ်မိနေကြတုံးပဲ..။ အဲဒီ နှစ် ၃၀၀ဝ လောက်က လောကနိတိတွေကို .. အခြေခံကစပြီး ပြန်ပြင်ရေးဖို့ကောင်းနေပြီ။
🙂
padonmar
February 18, 2011 at 1:52 pm
ဘယ်ခေတ်ရောက်ရောက် တကယ့်မိတ်ဆွေစစ် လိုချင်ရင်တော့ ဒီကျင့်ဝတ်တွေ လိုက်နာရမှာပါ။
ဘယ်လိုversion ပြောင်းပြောင်း ဒီ ကျင့်ဂတ်ဘောင်ထဲမဝင်ရင်မိတ်ဆွေမစစ်လို့ပေါ။့
kopauk mandalay
February 18, 2011 at 3:37 pm
တစ်ချို့သော လူ့မူ့ပေါင်းသင်းဆက်ဆံရေးနဲ့ပါတ်သက်တဲ့ ရှေးကပြောသောစကားများသည်
နှစ်ဘယ်လောက်ဘဲကြာကြာ မှန်နေသေးတယ် ခေတ်မှီနေသေးတယ်ဆိုရင်လဲမမှားပါဘူး။
မိတ်ဆွေစစ်အတွက် ကတော့ အခုဖော်ပြထားတဲ့အချက်တွေက မှန်နေသေးမယ်လို့ ယုံကြည်ပါတယ်။
တစ်ခုတော့ပြောချင်ပါတယ် ဒါက မြန်မာပြည်မှာနေသူတွေအတွက်မှန်တာပါ.
နိုင်ငံခြားမှာတော့ မနေဘူးသေးလို့ မသိပါဘူးဗျာ။
kai
February 18, 2011 at 10:46 pm
အင်း..။
မှားတယ်မဆိုလိုပါဘူး..။ ခေတ်နဲ့မညီ..မပြည့်စုံတော့ဘူးပြောတာပါ..။ ဒါတွေကို စံထားနေဖို့မကောင်းတော့ဘူး.။
နောက်ပြီး ..ဒါတွေက .. လောကနီတိကယူတာတွေများတယ်..။
အိန္ဒိယရဲ့ .. ဇတ်နိမ့်ဇတ်မြင့် အဆင့်အတန်းခွဲတဲ့ .. လူနေမှုစံနစ်က ထွက်လာတာတွေပဲ..။
ဥပမာ..။
ဆောင်ပုဒ်၁ နဲ့ ၂ပဲကြည့်..။
ပေးကမ်း..ချီးမြှင့် ရမယ်ဆိုကတည်းက ..ဇတ်ခွဲတဲ့သဘောကို ထိမ်းကြောင်းနေတဲ့သဘောပါနေတယ်.။
အဲဒါကို .. ဆောင်ပုဒ်၂နဲ့ ..ထပ်အားဖြည့်ထားရတယ်..။
ဒီလို လောကီရေး ဆောင်ပုဒ်တွေက .. အမြဲမှန်တဲ့ ပရမတ်တွေတော့မဟုတ်ဖူး..။
လူနေမှုနဲ့ လိုက်ပြင်နေရတာပဲ..။
အဲဒါနဲ့ပါတ်သက်တဲ့ ဝိကီကို ကူးတင်ပေးလိုက်ပါတယ.်.. ဒီခေတ်ရဲ့ .. မိတ်ဆွေအဆင့်သတ်မှတ်ချက်မှာရှိရမဲ့ တန်ဖိုးတချို ့ပါပါတယ်..
လေ့လာဖို့ပါ..။
* The tendency to desire what is best for the other
* Sympathy and empathy
* Honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one’s counterpart
* Mutual understanding and compassion
* Trust in one another (able to express feelings – including in relation to the other’s actions – without the fear of being judged); able to go to each other for emotional support
* Positive reciprocity – a relationship is based on equal give and take between the two parties.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friendship
Types of friendships
Acquaintance: a friend, but sharing of emotional ties isn’t present. An example would be a coworker with whom you enjoy eating lunch or having coffee, but would not look to for emotional support. Many “friends” that appear on social networking sites are generally acquaintances in real life.
Best friend (or the closest friend): A person with whom someone shares extremely strong interpersonal ties with as a friend.
BFF (“best friend forever”): Slang used primarily in the USA by teenage and young adult women to describe a girl friend or close best friend.
Blood brother or blood sister: Either people related by birth, or a circle of friends who swear loyalty by mingling the blood of each member together.
Boston marriage: An antiquated American term used during the nineteenth and twentieth centuries to denote two women who lived together in the same household independent of male support. Relationships were not necessarily sexual. It was used to quell fears of lesbians after World War I.
Bro: Slang used primarily in the USA and New Zealand by teenage and young adult men to describe a boy friend or close best friend. This term is currently used to describe the modern generation of college-age male party-goers. The name is typically associated with attention seeking males who like to get drunk and party constantly.
Sis: Also Slang used primarily in the USA like ‘Bro’ but for women and girls.
Buddy: In the USA, males and sometimes females often refer to each other as “buddies”, for example, introducing a male friend as their “buddy”, or a circle of male friends as “buddies”. Buddies are also acquaintances that you have during certain events. The term may also refer to an online contact, such as the AOL Buddy List.
Casual relationship or “friends with benefits”: A sexual or near-sexual and emotional relationship between two people who don’t expect or demand to share a formal romantic relationship. This is also referred to an open relationship or a “hook-up”.
Family friend: A friendship extended to family members of the friends. Close relation is developed in those societies where family setup is strong. This term usually used in subcontinent.
Comrade: Means “ally”, “friend”, or “colleague” in a military or (usually) left-wing political connotation. This is the feeling of affinity that draws people together in time of war or when people have a mutual enemy or even a common goal. Friendship can be mistaken for comradeship. Former New York Times war correspondent Chris Hedges wrote:
We feel in wartime comradeship. We confuse this with friendship, with love. There are those, who will insist that the comradeship of war is love – the exotic glow that makes us in war feel as one people, one entity, is real, but this is part of war’s intoxication. […] Friends are predetermined; friendship takes place between men and women who possess an intellectual and emotional affinity for each other. But comradeship – that ecstatic bliss that comes with belonging to the crowd in wartime – is within our reach. We can all have comrades.[8]
As a war ends, or a common enemy recedes, many comrades return to being strangers, who lack friendship and have little in common.
Cross-sex friendship: A person having a friend of the opposite sex with having little or no sexual or romantic activity: a male who has a female friend, or a female who has a male friend. Historically cross-sex friendships have been rare. This is because often men would labor in order to support themselves and their family, while women stayed at home and took care of the housework and children. The lack of contact led to men forming friendships exclusively with their colleagues, and women forming friendships with other stay at home mothers. However, as women attended schools more and as their presence in the workplace increased, the segregated friendship dynamic was altered, and cross-sex friendships began to increase. Cross sex friendships has once been a sign of gender deviance, but now it has been loosened because of the increase of gender equality in schools and the workplace, along with certain interests and pastimes such as sports.
However, cross-sex friendships aren’t always a socially accepted norm of amity and some of those friendships could develop into romantic feelings (see romantic friendship). However, when these feelings are not mutual, they can often backfire, making it hard for the two to remain friends.
Frenemy: A portmanteau of the words fr(iend) and enemy, the term frenemy refers to someone who pretends to be a friend but actually is an enemy—a proverbial wolf in sheep’s clothing in the world of friendships. This is also known as a love-hate relationship. Most people have encountered a frenemy at one time or another in the same places one might find friends – school, work, the neighborhood. The term frenemy was reportedly coined by a sister of author and journalist Jessica Mitford in 1977, and popularized more than twenty years later on the third season of Sex and the City. While most research on friendship and health has focused on the positive relationship between the two, a frenemy is a potential source of irritation and stress. One study by psychologist Dr. Julianne Holt-Lunstad found that unpredictable love-hate relationships characterized by ambivalence can lead to elevations in blood pressure. In a previous study, the same researcher found that blood pressure is higher around friends for whom they have mixed feelings than it is when they’re around people whom they clearly dislike.[9]
Fruit flies,[10] fag hag (female),[11] or fag stag (male):[12] denotes a person (usually heterosexual) who forms deep ties or close friendships with gay men. Men (gay or straight) who have lesbian friends have been referred to lezbros or lesbros.[13] The term has often been claimed by these straight members in gay-straight friendships, however some feel that it is derogatory.[14][15]
Imaginary friend: a non-physical friend created by a child or even an adult. Sometimes they’re human, other times they’re animals like the life-size rabbit in the old Jimmy Stewart movie, “Harvey.” Imaginary friends are also created for people in desperate of social interaction but is isolated from contact with humans and pets. It may be seen as bad behavior or even taboo (some religious parents even consider their child to be possessed by an evil “spirit”), but is most commonly regarded as harmless, typical childhood behavior. The friend may or may not be human, and commonly serves a protective purpose.
Internet relationship: a form of friendship or romance which takes place over the Internet. Some internet friendships evolve into real life friendships. Internet friendships are in similar context to a pen pal. These friendships are also based on the thought that the other person that they may not have ever met in real life knows them for who they are instead of the mask they may use in real life.
Mate: In the UK, Ireland, Australia, and New Zealand, blokes often refer to each other as ‘mates’, for example, introducing a male friend as their “mate”, or a circle of male friends as “mates”. In the UK, as well as Australia, this term has begun to be taken up by women as well as men.
Open relationship: a relationship, usually between two people, that agree each partner is free to have sexual intercourse with others outside the relationship. When this agreement is made between a married couple, it’s called an “open marriage”.
Pen pal: people who have a relationship via postal correspondence. Now pen pals has been established into internet friendship with the use of chat or social networking sites. They may or may not have met each other in person and may share either love, friendship, or simply an acquaintance between each other. This type of correspondence was encouraged in many elementary school children; it was thought that an outside source of information or a different person’s experience would help the child become more worldly.